After the update I had the problem with freetype2 and harfbuzz and as the second post instructed I just updated freetype2 the official supported package from the repo and after that it worked...
But another issue came when I logged in, that is really pissing me off , is that some icons are falling back to the default theme (I use paper-icon-theme) it's not all of them is just some here and there like the home button on the file manager or the open in new window button on the right click menu. I tried different icon themes and the exact same icons had the same problem, I also tried reinstalling paper-icon-theme and installing completely new icons and still most of the same buttons had problems. Any idea how to fix this ?
Everything else seems to work fine.
Other things that may be of significance :
I use the xfce DE and this is the first update I do since 26/01.
I am a linux noob so be gentle .